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Or is it? What is really in a name. I am of course referring to "pagan names." Some of them can be rather simple, others can be extremely extravagant. You can see most of them on pagan books, where the author has chosen some obscure and ridiculous name such as say... Silver Ravenwolf. Which really, not only sounds silly, but is also one hell of a mouthful.

The origin of the "craft name" is one that is obscure. There is no way of telling if the original pagans ever used such names as the ones you see these days, it is more than likely that they may have had different names to hide their identity when the inquisition came about. But I doubt it was something like Raven or Wolf. Probably just changing ones name from Joe Bloggs to Jon Smith. After all, what would you say was more heathenish, having the name of an animal, or a good solid Christian name.

In Gardner's original Wicca, it was stated that one should have a separate Craft Name, so that one would not be identifiable in every day life as being a witch if hostility towards the pagan world should ever rise up again. In theory this is a relatively good idea. The same applied to the mark of their pentacles. For those unawares, pentacles should be made of printed wax, therefore it can easily be destroyed if need be. Same applied to keeping books. Never show your Book of Shadows to anyone else and always be prepared to destroy it if need be.

I suppose in today's age where traditionalists of the faith are few and far between the same can be said of your computerised version. If the inquisition comes back don't hesitate to wipe your hard drives and melt down your occult jewellery.

On both counts this is barely a problem for myself. I own more crosses than I do pentacles. My cross, made of white gold given to me by my parents is actually nicer on me than my pentacle, which was again, given to me by those that helped me find my footing in this world of confusing myths and a lot of lies.

The same applies to my "Grimoire", which actually looks more like a cookbook as I have any number of recipes in there for helping with ailments, is also easily destroyable if need be. I've done it before when necessary. My grief at the loss of so much work was far surpassed by the need to survive.

And again, with my pagan name? I suppose when I think about it, [Delladreing], has become my pagan name. I never intended to change my name to something fancy. But then again, nor would I have considered ever living openly as a pagan, I will quite probably remain a closet witch for the rest of my life so long as I use my real name. So I suppose, Dela, has become the part of me that doesn't need to hide who they are for the sake of harmony in one's life.

And unlike some pagan names, I hardly think that Dela ranges on some more of the eccentric ones that I have seen. I think I'd rather shout "Dela!" across a crowded gathering that "Windsong! Windsong!"

Granted, some of who you are as a pagan, may be in your name. But is it vital to think up the most obscure thing possible and plaster it all over a book? No.

I will never assume any other alter ego, other than Dela. The only person that will ever write a pagan book, will be Dela.
I will sign things Dela when dealing with such things.

Rather Dela than something not even remotely recognisable as a normal name and is impossible to say and spell.

I suppose really what I am trying to say, is that if you must have a pagan name, keep it simple. There's no need to name yourself something that sounds so far out it should have bells on.

Think of it from the point of view, that the more down to earth you are in choosing it, the less likely it is that someone else will have the same one as you. How many Silver Ravens do you think there are?

Then ask yourself, how many people have picked a name like Dela, or Imie, or Cara (Imie and Cara by the by being some very old online friends that I never managed to get on to ET, we used to cause chaos in forums, ah the days when it all began *misty eyed*) Then just think how much more special and personal it makes you feel, to know that you are the only one.

That is all.

Stop adding frills to it all, it doesn't help things, it doesn't make you more powerful. Just learn to deal with the fact that you never will be Raven.




-Playgans

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2007-01-12 [Willow Rose]: [Delladreing], how did you pick your pagan name?
I'm on this one thing where we needed to have one, and the owner said to pick something that meant something to me. Rose is my favorite flower, and "willow" brings back some great memories to me, so the name "Willow Rose" means something special to me, but I want a simpler one but I just can't find one that I feel fits me...

2007-01-12 [Delladreing]: Honestly? I created Dela my alter ego. Deladreing is a form of Elvish for my real name Fiona Savage. I created it for this site. It was when I was on this site however that I started writing pagan pieces, ergo the name Dela became my pagan one.

I'm afraid that's all there is to it for me.
Just use a name that feels right to you like you say. Doesn't need to be fancy. "Dela" sounds like a fishermans wife to me. Or a French sentence that never got finished.

2007-01-12 [Willow Rose]: Well like I said, the Willow Rose names means something to me, but it just seems too... frilly.
I thought maybe I'd find something I liked from one of those name generators, because I know people who have gotten really pretty simple names from them, like the fairy ones or Elvish ones... But let's just say my name doesn't make very nice ones. -.-

2007-01-12 [Delladreing]: So just make one up :p

2007-01-12 [Fireblade K'Chona]: Pick a name you always *wish* you'd had and plug it in. For the first eleven years of my life I wanted to be named Anna.

2007-01-13 [Willow Rose]: I've always wanted the name "Alexandrya", "Aurora", or "Alyndria".

2007-01-13 [Fireblade K'Chona]: I actually quite like my name, though, so that's all right them. :P It's not a very cool name, but it works for me, and my last name is pretty unique. Despite the fact that I occasionally get mocked for it.

2007-01-13 [Azuri]: Ive always liked my name, Felicia isn't something you hear everyday and that made me happy. Although it always gets mispronounced and misspelled.

2007-01-13 [Fireblade K'Chona]: My name gets misspelled *all* the time. I swear there are like 20 ways to spell it. -sigh-

2007-01-13 [Azuri]: I most liked the way my husbands dad spelt it the first time he had to. He spelt it Phylissha. Which was a completely new one on me XD

2007-01-14 [Rondel]: A lot of it comes down to this: if someone says the name, are you going to recognize it as you, and feel comfortable responding? That's what a name is supposed to be, after all -- a designation of self. You can pick the fanciest or simplest name you can think of, and if it doesn't feel like *you*, it's the wrong one. If it *does* feel like you, if you wouldn't feel silly having your best friend, or your parents, or your 3rd grade teacher, find out that you're using that name, and call you by it -- then it's the right name, regardless of its form, construction, language, floridity, or anything else.

2007-03-19 [Jitter]: I have noticed the fake name thing in almost everything -.- Just to show cool you rename yourself to Shadowwolf or something...Gah x_X Kinda reminds me of an incident in a Terry Pratcett book *giggles* where a group of girls pretends they're witches and Granny Weatherwax tells them off. "What's your name dear?" "Magenta" "Your real name!" "Violet..." "Violet.. Well Violet is a better name than Magenta.. And a much nicer colour" x) Sorry for being random but it would be awesome to send a Granny Weatherwax to all those fakers. :)

2007-03-19 [Delladreing]: ...I love you all the more for being able to quote that XD *hugs*

2007-03-19 [Jitter]: x) /hugs back I read only 6 books because I can't find the rest in greece but I love his writing style :) And I adore the games xD

2007-03-19 [Delladreing]: The Turtle Moves is my other wiki baby :P

2007-03-19 [Jitter]: ^^

2007-03-19 [Azuri]: Bah you make me want to read them and I have no access to them :(

2007-06-10 [Edurne]: I always thought Silver Ravenwolf was a stupid name...

2007-06-10 [Delladreing]: I just always thought she was.

2007-06-10 [Azuri]: *nod nod* after I was "shown the light" if you will I realized how stupid she was.

2007-07-28 [Rondel]: *shrugs* I'm not sure how stupid a person is if they've figured out a way to cash in on a mass marketing trend, and the hordes of sheep-like followers thereof... ...but it doesn't mean I feel a need to hail them as the great enlightener. ;)

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